aftermath | things to work on within myself

I will work on identifying and discussing instances where I feel a boundary or expectation has been broken in a timely and constructive manner.

I will not use coping strategies that erode my self respect nor the respect or trust I have for my girlfriend(s)

I will work on not letting the pain and heartbreak in my past define who I am.

I will work on being more aware of happiness in my life and showing it.

I will work on finding my brightness that I usually have and making sure it is something people immediately see in me.

When I have been hurt, especially if I’ve been bullied by someone I love, I will not respond with indifference nor deliberate cruelty. I will seek to find the cause of their hurt first and see what can be done to heal it and i expect her to be mature/ developed/ self actualized enough to do the same.

I will work to address why i have a disproportionate appreciation for women and stop deifying them.

I have absolutely amazing friends. The brightness i give to the world is the brightness they have taught and shared with me.

I will not disqualify someone from dating if they have survived abuse and/or neglect. BUT if they have not fully dealt with that injury, i will not become involved with them.

I will continue to salvage my dignity and objectivity.

I will find my confidence again.

I will shine again.

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