My theme just went piggly wiggly
The theme i’ve used for years, Stargazer, was updated a few days ago. It appears that it forced a new appearance and one that, frankly, i’m not very happy with. […]
What the fuck just happened?
A few months ago i met a woman via a dating site. There was chemistry but not the sort of chemistry that leads to life long commitments, which is fine. […]
Sundays are still tough
I have only a few minutes left in this day before i have to sleep. We’re deep in the rain season here in the PNW. It can be a time […]
Three years on; a journey of insanity, grief and realizations
As of a day or two ago (I don’t remember quite when it happened) marked the three year anniversary of my ex breaking up with me over the phone after […]
Part one
There have been so many changes in my life in the last two years that i’m not even going to begin to describe all of them here. But i can’t […]
Prelude
It’s been a long time since i’ve written anything. Even now i don’t want to write because sometimes just talking about experiences can cause me to fall back into that […]
Ways to not give advice
Much has happened to me in the time since my last post. There hasn’t been a lot of good in these last few months but there’s been at least one […]
empty
A few days ago i made a decision that i hoped i would never have to make. It was the last time i would acknowledge someone that used to be […]
Nisqually
Today was a bit rougher than i thought it would be. I knew i was going to have to drive through my ex’s home town of Olympia. That includes Tumwater, […]
about not having, nor wanting to ever have, children.
As a guy with a vasectomy, it’s not terribly common for others to comment on my choice to not reproduce. But it does happen. Unfortunately in our double standard culture […]