{"id":772,"date":"2013-03-27T17:11:10","date_gmt":"2013-03-28T00:11:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/synaesthetic.com\/?p=772"},"modified":"2013-03-27T12:15:53","modified_gmt":"2013-03-27T19:15:53","slug":"aftermath-things-to-work-on-within-myself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/synaesthetic.com\/?p=772","title":{"rendered":"aftermath | things to work on within myself"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I will work on identifying and discussing instances where I feel a boundary or expectation has been broken in a timely and constructive manner. <\/p>\n<p>I will not use coping strategies that erode my self respect nor the respect or trust I have for my girlfriend(s)<\/p>\n<p>I will work on not letting the pain and heartbreak in my past define who I am. <\/p>\n<p>I will work on being more aware of happiness in my life and showing it.<\/p>\n<p>I will work on finding my brightness that I usually have and making sure it is something people immediately see in me. <\/p>\n<p>When I have been hurt, especially if I\u2019ve been bullied by someone I love, I will not respond with indifference nor deliberate cruelty. I will seek to find the cause of their hurt first and see what can be done to heal it and i expect her to be mature\/ developed\/ self actualized enough to do the same.<\/p>\n<p>I will work to address why i have a disproportionate appreciation for women and stop deifying them. <\/p>\n<p>I have absolutely amazing friends. The brightness i give to the world is the brightness they have taught and shared with me. <\/p>\n<p>I will not disqualify someone from dating if they have survived abuse and\/or neglect. BUT if they have not fully dealt with that injury, i will not become involved with them. <\/p>\n<p>I will continue to salvage my dignity and objectivity.<\/p>\n<p>I will find my confidence again.<\/p>\n<p>I will shine again. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I will work on identifying and discussing instances where I feel a boundary or expectation has been broken in a timely and constructive manner. I will not use coping strategies that erode my self respect nor the respect or trust I have for my girlfriend(s) I will work on not letting the pain and heartbreak &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/synaesthetic.com\/?p=772\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;aftermath | things to work on within myself&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-772","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-aftermath"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/synaesthetic.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/772","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/synaesthetic.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/synaesthetic.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/synaesthetic.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/synaesthetic.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=772"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/synaesthetic.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/772\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":774,"href":"https:\/\/synaesthetic.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/772\/revisions\/774"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/synaesthetic.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=772"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/synaesthetic.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=772"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/synaesthetic.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=772"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}